8 Quotes & Sayings By J Ruth Gendler

J. Ruth Gendler is a clinical psychologist, research scholar, and educator. She received her Ph.D. from the University of Michigan in 1975 and served as director of the psychology clinic at the University of Michigan Health System Read more

She has published numerous papers and books on individual differences in intelligence, intelligence testing, and the relationship between intelligence and achievement. Her research interests include intelligence, intelligence testing, motivation to learn, creative thinking, creativity training strategies, and creative writing.

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Beauty is startling. She wears a gold shawl in the summer and sells seven kinds of honey at the flea market. She is young and old at once, my daughter and my grandmother. In school she excelled in mathematics and poetry.. . Beauty will dance with anyone who is brave enough to ask her. J. Ruth Gendler
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Pain is subtle. He has cold grey fingers. His voice is horse from crying & screaming.. When people try to avoid him, he follows them silently & turns upas the bartender, or the bus driver.. Pain has an elaborate filing system for keeping track of everyone.. Pain respects people who are willing to take risks. If you.. face him directly, he will give you a special ointment so your wounds don't fester. J. Ruth Gendler
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‎Pleasure is wild and sweet. She likes purple flowers. She loves the sun and the wind and the night sky. She carries a silver bowl full of liquid moonlight. She has a cat named Midnight with stars on his paws. Many people mistrust Pleasure, and even more misunderstand her. For a long time I could barely stand to be in ...the same room with her... J. Ruth Gendler
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I invited Intuition to stay in my house when my roommates went North. I warned her that I am territorial and I keep the herb jars in alphabetical order. Intuition confessed that she has a ‘spotty employment record.’ She was fired from her last job for daydreaming. When Intuition moved in, she washed all the windows, cleaned out the fireplace, planted fruit trees, and lit purple candles. She doesn’t cook much. She eats beautiful foods, artichokes, avocadoes, persimmons and pomegranates, wild rice with wild mushrooms, chrysanthemum tea. She doesn’t have many possessions. Each thing is special. I wish you could see the way she arranged her treasures on the fireplace mantle. She has a splendid collection of cups, bowls, and baskets. Well, the herbs are still in alphabetical order, and I can’t complain about how the house looks. Since Intuition moved in, my life has been turned inside out. J. Ruth Gendler
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Contentment has learned how to find out what she needs to know. Last year she went on a major housecleaning spree. First she stood on her head until all the extra facts fell out. Then she discarded about half her house. Now she knows where every thing comes from–who dyed the yarn dark green and who wove the rug and who built the loom, who made the willow chair, who planted the apricot trees. She made the turquoise mugs herself with clay she found in the hills beyond her house. When Contentment is sad, she takes a mud bath or goes to the mountains until her lungs are clear. When she walks through an unfamiliar neighborhood, she always makes friends with the local cats. J. Ruth Gendler
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Courage is not afraid to weep and she is not afraid to pray even when she is not sure who she is praying to. J. Ruth Gendler
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Fear has a large shadow but he himself is small. J. Ruth Gendler